helping women and couples with relationship issues
 

Relationship Issues

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You can have great relationships

 
 

You want to get along with your spouse, your parents, your child, your co-workers.

You resolve to quit getting angry, quit saying the wrong things, quit reacting poorly.

It hurts to be working so hard at something and still fail

and you wonder if a healthy relationship is even in the cards for you.

 
 
  • You spout off even though you had resolved to bit your tongue because you don't have control over your mouth.

  • You don't speak up when you're being hurt or abused because you're afraid of not being loved.

  • You struggle with jealousy and feelings of insecurity because you've been hurt so much in the past.

 
 
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You feel hurt, angry, and lonely in your relationship

and you wonder if it’s even possible for you to be happy.

You want to FEEL CONFIDENT AND SELF-ASSURED

without needing other people to tell you you’re wonderful.

 

 

  • You know good relationships are central to having a good life

  • You KNOW your relationships are worth fighting for

  • YOU KNOW THAT YOU’RE READY TO DO WHAT IT TAKES TO BE HAPPY

 
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Relationships can be effected by many things:

 

HEALTH ISSUES - how you feel physically impacts how you treat others and how you handle difficult situations. Chronic pain, illness, weight and food issues, and addiction all can play a role.

ESTEEM PROBLEMS - when you don’t feel good about yourself, it’s hard for you to bring your best to a relationship. It’s important to get control of negative self-talk, poor self-confidence, and feelings of powerlessness.

MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL STRUGGLES - these are so hard and impact relationships in profound ways. Past traumas, anxiety, depression, anger issues, all need to be addressed.

SKILL NEEDS - sometimes you just need to learn how to do things better, like communicate and maintain good boundaries.

 

 Your changes will

improve your relationships

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I totally get it. I’ve been in a marriage relationship for over 25 years and when things were rocky, we were either fighting or spending time apart. Unhappy relationships are miserable!

It may seem that things will never be better. I’ve wondered that myself at times. Yet things did get better and they can for you too.

Mine improved because:

  • I understand and use the differences that made my relationship challenging.

  • I work on my own issues that were holding me back in my life.

  • I communicate with my husband in new ways, so that we talk things out instead of fighting.

I’ve created this program to help you and others go through this same process and start having the relationship they really want.

 
Susan Van Cleave, MS, CHT
 
 

Here’s what your life is about to look like…

  • You're able to face difficult situations without becoming upset because it's no longer as easy for someone to push your buttons.

  • You stand up for yourself because you know that you have worth and value as a person.

  • You have a sense of inner calm and confidence because past hurts no longer control your present life.

 
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Introducing:

 
 

Your New Spring

 
 
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 A series of sessions that will allow you to:

  • get to know and appreciate yourself better

  • focus on your particular struggles and concerns

  • learn skills that you can use in all your relationships moving forward

 
 

You can Learn to love yourself!

Through Your New Spring, you’ll overcome the roadblocks that are getting in your way.

Start building a life that feels loving and safe.

 
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 Here’s what you get when you sign up for Your New Spring:

 
 
  • Enneagram Mentoring so you can better understand yourself and use that understanding to improve your relationships.

  • Individual Hypnotherapy Sessions so you can finally take care of any issues that are getting in the way of your relationships and your life.

  • Relationship Building Assignments so you can build on each session through the week.

Sessions will be held online over Zoom in the comfort and privacy of your home.

 

 $899 for 6 Sessions

Let’s get on a Zoom call for a FREE Consultation.

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FAQ:

How often will we meet together?

That will depend on what works best for you. I find it’s preferable to meet every week to 10 days, if possible.

How long are sessions?

First sessions tend to last 2 hours. After that, you can expect sessions to be 1-1.5 hours long.

How do online sessions work?

We’ll meet on our computers over Zoom. Sign up for a free mini-session to experience it.

Do you offer a military discount?

Yes. As the wife of a Naval Reservist, I know how much is sacrificed by military members and their families.

What is the Enneagram?

It’s a fantastic personality typing tool to help you learn more about yourself and better understand your partner.

Hypnotherapy???

Yes, hypnosis. Through it you can make lasting changes very quickly.